To strain courtesy

Definitions

  • Webster's Revised Unabridged Dictionary
    • To strain courtesy to go beyond what courtesy requires; to insist somewhat too much upon the precedence of others; -- often used ironically.
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Usage

In literature:

Then we fell to straining our courtesies upon one another.
"The Fortunate Mistress (Parts 1 and 2)" by Daniel Defoe
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